This is always an exciting time of year. Planning is complete, new books have been purchased, and the new school schedule/routine is in the final tweaking stage. Ready or not, our first day of school begins in about nine hours! This year is going to be very different for our family. Half of our school-age children will be at home and half will be in school. Our girls have been home now for a year and a half. They’ve come so incredibly far over the past 18 months. They’ve learned to speak English, they’ve adjusted to a new culture, food, and family, they’ve made friends, and they completed a year of homeschooling. But the fact is, they’re now 6, 6, and 8 and they have no prior education and the past year has been very difficult. Books and methods that have worked with my other children have not been successful with the girls. None of them are reading yet, despite trying very hard (Mom and children!) and the longer they’re home the more overwhelmed I get while realizing just how much they’ve missed by not being in a family for the last several years of their life. As a result, we decided to put the girls in school for a year. At the end of this school year we will re-evaluate. The ultimate goal is to bring them back home. We’re a homeschooling family but right now, this year, we’re calling in reinforcements! We live out in the country. Our local public elementary school is in the middle of farm land and peach orchards. There are less than 250 students in the entire school and they have wonderful intervention specialists that can help us identify where the girls need special help and can get them started with the right tools for success. To be quite honest, I also had a bit of a revelation a few months ago when trying to decide what would be best for the girls for the coming school year. I’ve never been able to just be their mom.
Yesterday, I received all of our paperwork from AGCI. It was very exciting to look through everything and I hope to watch the DVD that came with our packet tonight after church (if I can hold my eyes open long enough!). I read about how the Ethiopian government has changed their rules in the last year and all adopting families are now required to make not one, but two trips to Ethiopia before taking your child home. Two trips to Africa within two months of each other. As I began the paperwork and saw the time frames and dollar signs on paper, I could feel a weight come over me.
There’s no way you can do this.
It’s going to be such a long road.
You won’t raise enough money.
But God spoke to me through someone’s status on Facebook.
Out of the mouth of an eight year old little girl:
“God makes things that are impossible, unimpossible.”
So many times I can look back on a situation and think, I guess if that had been easier, then it wouldn’t have been such an amazing God Story. You know what kind of stories I’m talking about. The stories where nothing is falling into place, everything is falling apart, there’s no hope, there’s no money, there’s no help, whatever the lack may be; and then God steps in, shakes things up, and all of the pieces fall into place in a way that leaves everyone’s jaws on the floor, giving glory to our big, big, God!
In the midst of being overwhelmed, the phone rang. It was a sweet lady from our church whose husband goes to Tanzania, Africa several times a year to bring tools to the locals and help them build homes and buildings. She said she’d been reading about our journey for Zoe and wanted to encourage me and let me know how excited she was for us. She also said that she and her husband will be helping support us financially on our journey. Instantly, God blew wind back into my puny sails through that sweet lady. I stood up tall as I hung up the phone and remembered all of the amazing stories I’ve read from other adopting families, knowing that one day we will have a handful of our own.
Of course it doesn’t end there! I got on the computer and realized I’d received an email from my aunt in Maine. She was telling me how excited she was that we were adopting. She went on to say that she would talk to my uncle and see about donating to Zoe’s adoption. I checked my paypal account a few minutes later and there it was, a large, generous donation from Aunt Kathy and Uncle Terry. The donation that launched us past the one thousand dollar mark. Unbelievable. In that moment it was as if God whispered to me:
one down, twenty-four to go.
God Story #2!
All I need to know for sure is that God has never let me down. He has never called me to something that He did not equip me to conquer. Each day I learn something new about trusting the Lord and surrendering everything to him. Thank you, for those of you who have already begun to pray and encourage us in this journey. Your words are like water to my soul and the Lord continually brings them to remembrance when I get discouraged. Will you continue to share our story in hopes that there are many more just like you out there who will allow God to take their $10 to Africa where there will soon be one less orphan?
Blessings,
audrey
If you haven’t discovered the blessing of Ann Voskamp, here is a video that gives us a glimpse of her new book, “One Thousand Gifts”.
~audrey
My boys were quite disappointed to find out that, although their regular school friends got another day off today because of the snow and ice, we’ll be returning to school as usual.
I had to remind them that we took the entire month of December off and will be finished with co-op at the end of March. Or how about last week when we spent the majority of the week in our pajamas and played long games of Qwirkle when we finished school before noon.
Today, we slept in until 9:00am. Of course Joshua woke up much earlier and didn’t feel the need to wake anyone else. When I was making breakfast he came in the kitchen and said,
“When I got up earlier than everyone else, I decided to find Norway, Sweden, Finland, Denmark, and the Netherlands on the map in the school room.” (his georgraphy for this week)
That’s what a momma wants to hear!
Right now I’m finishing my cup of coffee and the boys are sitting at the table coloring.
I picked up a Lite-Brite for the boys for Christmas. It was only $10 at Target and it was a huge hit. I only got one, so the boys take turns with it, but Owen seems to like it the most and it’s helping him learn his letters at the same time. He can now fill in all the “O”s, “G”s, “W”s, and “Y”s by himself. We’re working on “R” for red and “V” for violet (purple).
Josh will likely work late tonight and the rest of the week to make up for their snow day yesterday. I have a roast and veggies in the crock pot and I look forward to a quiet, thought-provoking day with the boys.
P.S. I did my second 5k workout last night on the treadmill. It was much easier than the first workout. It’s amazing how quickly your body adjusts. Tonight is my favorite form of inspiration: Biggest Loser!
~audrey
As I’ve said before, we used the Maxwell‘s scheduling material to come up with our Master Schedule and Chore Packs.
Our Master Schedule is simply a tool. There is never a single day that everything on everyone’s schedule gets accomplished. However, if we get off track during the day, it’s an excellent tool to refer to in order to help me reel us back in and continue being productive. It’s also a great way to make sure your time is accounted for on those days when you feel like you got nothing accomplished whatsoever!
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MOMMY
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JOSHUA
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JESSE
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OWEN
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6:30am
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Exercise/
Quiet Time
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Sleeping
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Sleeping
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Sleeping
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7:00am
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Shower/Get Ready
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Sleeping
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Sleeping
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Sleeping
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7:30am
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Breakfast
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Get Dressed/Breakfast
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Get Dressed/Breakfast
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Get Dressed/Breakfast
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8:00am
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Chore Training/Clean up
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Chores
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Chores
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Chores
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8:30am
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Bible Study with the boys
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Bible Study and Prayer
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Bible Study and Prayer
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Bible Study and Prayer
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9:00am
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School
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Spelling
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Spelling
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Color
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9:30am
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School
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Reading with Mommy
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Flash Cards with Owen
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ABC Flashcards with Jesse
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10:00am
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School
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Workbook with Owen
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Reading with Mommy
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Workbook with Joshua
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10:30am
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Snack
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Snack
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Snack
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Snack
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11:00am
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School
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Math
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Math
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Blocks/Puzzles
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11:30am
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School
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Memory Work
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Memory Work
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Memory Work/
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12:00pm
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Lunch
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Lunch
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Lunch
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Lunch
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12:30pm
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School
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Language Lessons
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Language Lessons
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Play with Trains
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1:00pm
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School
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Copywork/Writing
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Copywork/Writing
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Math Manipulatives with Mommy
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1:30pm
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Fly Lady (cleaning, pay bills, emails, etc.)
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Play outside
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Play outside
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Play outside
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2:30pm
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Play (games, puzzles, computer)
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Play (games, puzzles, computer)
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Nap
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3:00pm
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School
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**Extra School
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**Extra School
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Nap
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3:30pm
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Music
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Piano
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Computer
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Nap
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4:00pm
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Music
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Computer
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Piano
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Nap
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4:30pm
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Whole House Sweep/Dinner Prep
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Dinner Helper
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Dinner Helper
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Dinner Helper
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5:00pm
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Dinner/
Clean up
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Dinner
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Dinner
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Dinner
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5:30pm
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Family Time
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Family Time
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Family Time
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Family Time
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6:00pm
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Bath Prep
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Games with Daddy
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Games with Daddy
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Games with Daddy
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6:30pm
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Bathe Kids/
Teeth & Jammies
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Bath/
Teeth & Jammies
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Bath/
Teeth & Jammies
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Bath/
Teeth & Jammies
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7:00pm
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Story/Bible Time
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Story/Bible Time
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Story/Bible Time
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Story/Bible Time
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7:30pm
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Prayers with Kids
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Prayers/Bed
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Prayers/Bed
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Prayers/Bed
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8:00pm
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Kids in Bed/
Bedtime Chores
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SLEEP
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SLEEP
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SLEEP
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8:30pm
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Evening Routine/Plan for tomorrow
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SLEEP
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SLEEP
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SLEEP
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9:00pm
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Read…aahhhhhh…
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SLEEP
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SLEEP
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SLEEP
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9:30pm
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Read
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SLEEP
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SLEEP
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SLEEP
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10:00pm
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Read
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SLEEP
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SLEEP
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SLEEP
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10:30pm
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Lights Out!
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SLEEP
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SLEEP
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SLEEP
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Hope that helps! Let me know if you have any questions. It’s very trial and error in the creation process.
Happy Monday!
~audrey
These days, with six children, my organizational tendencies come and go…mostly GO.
However, I have been despising a certain pile of magazines on the floor in my room for some time now, and I decided it was “high time” to do something about it. My friend Mary inspired me when she showed me a notebook she had created for all of her take-out menus. She simply gathered their favorite take-out menus and put them all in sheet protectors in a nice, neat notebook. She’s even done the same thing for friends that were new to their area and weren’t familiar with the restaurants. I thought, “Hmmm, what a great idea. I may run with that!”
My pile of magazines consisted mostly of Family Fun, Better Homes and Gardens, Parenting, and Southern Living. Over the years I have dog-eared my favorite recipes, projects, crafts, decorating idea, etc. I decided to take the plunge and finish this project, knowing that in the end the magazines would be gone and I’d have the best of all of them in three organized notebooks!
I started by tearing out all the great ideas. I organized them by crafts, activities, holiday, recipes, and just plain great ideas (decorating, parenting, party planning, etc.). I purchased three notebooks and a few packages of sheet protectors and got to work. Here are the finished products. I’m quite happy with the results.
I hope this helps someone out there who has been hoarding magazines for fear of throwing away a really great article or idea!
Happy Organizing!
~audrey
I got a call from the children’s DFCS worker yesterday to inform me that things seem to be working out with their aunt afterall and it looks like the children could be moved next week.
This time does seem more promising, but I’m trying not to let us all start thinking towards “the kids will be gone by next weekend.” It is so devastating to Big Sister when she thinks she’s going ‘home’ one day, and the next she’s told nevermind, you’re staying put.
We sure will miss these children. It’s so strange to think that there could, and will likely be, new children in our home within a few weeks. My prayer is that God is moving these children out to make room for our girls!
We had visitation yesterday and things went very well. Mom even told me I did a great job on Sister’s hair. She didn’t even believe Sister when she first told her that I did it! LOL! Yes, this white girl has learned a thing or two over the last six or eight months.
Only time will tell whether they’re staying or going. I say I’m trusting the Lord, but to be perfectly honest, I’m quite nervous about what’s next…since it’s unknown territory. Will we get the girls? Will our next placement be as young as we like? Should I say NO to a placement if they try to give us children over the age of five for the safety of my own children? I’ll just have to keep leaning on the Lord and the wisdom He gives Josh and me in this roller coaster of a thing we call ‘our life‘.
~audrey